How to make your marriage work:Step 14

Never ever ever take your husband for granted.. A Prayer for my husband Thank you so much for my husband. Thank you for allowing him to be in my life .I don't want to ever take his life for granted,i want to be his wife who loves him deeply and cherish him .I desire to fulfills his needs and make feel valued .I want to respect him. Sometimes i easily forget about these things .I am so sorry you have given me a beautiful gift.I pray that you would help me to make time for my husband and to be the wife you created me to be.. Ameen i read it somewhere that never ever forget or take for granted that your man choose you....so this is my step 13 ladies...

How to make your marriage work:Step 13

Never ever try to correct your husband in public ,never ever discuss his negative points even in front of family or friends,try to avoid it...he has to have someone that he trust, will have his back and as a wife you have to be that someone ...never put your husband down in public...

If you need to discuss something he did or said which you didn't like then do it privately ,no one wants to be corrected in front of others ,once discussed and fixed,let it go.....

How to make your marriage work:Step 12

During a fight never say these words "i want a divorce"...

Because in the heat of the moment its easy to say things you don't mean and if you belong to a Muslim religion and if you say that i want a divorce during a fight with your husband and if it slips from his mouth that OK i give you divorce ...then ladies it might be the time for you to pack your bags...

....even if you belong to any religion and your husband says to you that he's leaving you or i give you divorce ,its something which cant be taken back easily back , i have read it....and it means that now your marriage maybe going downhihll So NEVER say these words like "OK leave me" "I want a divorce" "i don't want to live with you" Etc Things like these during s fight when you both are emotional....

How to make your marriage work:Step 11

OK when ever your husband's mother says something bad or hurtful to you

tell it to your husband,and tell it only ONCE to your husband because if he want to take an action on it he'll do it on your saying ,even once and he will tell his mother politely that my wife mind this so please don't do it again like 1 percent of the men do it or he will either say "you think so negative,my mom didn't mean to say this,you took it in a wrong way" like rest 95 percent men say... and ladies if he says this,then leave it because then arguing about it again and again will only create a fight between you and your husband...and he won't get it,it will be like you will be banging your head against the wall

.....because 95 percent men don't want to listen against their mother even if she's wrong and thats a bitter reality ladies....and then telling them about their mom that she did this to hurt you will create a fight between you two...

How to make your marriage work:Step 10

How to make your marriage work:Step 9

NOT Always but tell your man that you need him ,men like to know that their women need them like hug him unexpectedly and tell him that you feel secure when ever he's hugging you and do these type of small things to show him that you need him but don't over do it otherwise he will be on your head..... But my main point is that men like to be needed they want their women to need them ....

How to make your mariage work:Step 8

Ladies always be present for your man. Give him your time and attention whenever he needs it because after having kids we spend all our time taking care of the kids looking after the house and we spend very little time with our husband or either no time with our husband...and that's wrong,in this way you can lose your man...

I read somewhere a woman wrote that in my experience, during those times I did serve him, he over time, served me..

How to make your marriage work:Step 7

Stop complaining girls..when ever you husband comes from work ,let him relax ,don't start complaining about stuff ...

Because men work all day for their families so it is a wife's duty to make sure that her husband gets the type of environment at home in which he can relax ...and a woman can do this not by cooking or keeping the house clean but by stop complaining about different issues..

How to make your marriage work:Step 6

Ladies when ever you are having a fight with your husband and you just don't know what to do,always take advice from an older, wiser women who have succeeded in their marriages... It’s impossible to make good decisions when we’re emotional. And taking advice from your friends who are your own age isn’t as good as advice taken from elderly women....

How to make your marriage work:Step 5

Always see the positive points in your husband Ladies....Always see the best in him...

If you will look at his negative points only, you wont be able to love him ,you will get irritated by him again and again without any reason....and you wont be able to love him ,as a result you will start loosing your man.....

How to make your marriage work:Step 4

So ladies If your husband's mother has said something to you which you didn't like ,then don't say anything to your mother in law directly,because if you will say anything to your mother in law she will tell your husband that your wife insulted me,she don't respect me and most of all she will be against you,which is dangerous for you......and well that will get you into trouble girls...

As you can see in the above picture its WRONG way of handling this type of situation but the picture is really funny ha ha ha and i know every girl want to handle the situation like this but sadly you can't...it can put you into BIG BIG trouble.....well ladies you can do it in your dream right ha ha ha....

Well best way is not to directly fight with your mother in law,if she's continusly nagging you,instead tell your husband politely that you dont like your mother in law nagging you all the time....

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How to make your marriage work:Step :3

OK ladies so all want our men is to love us unconditionally,don't we...but why our men look at other women when they have us RIGHT, this happens because after having kids or after getting married we spend very less time on our appearance maybe no time on our appearance,because we spend our all day taking care of our kids ,our husband....

A man don't want a maid ,if he wanted a maid he ill hire one,men marry women to have a life partner who is always clean ,always looking nice ,they don't need maids....a woman should always take some time for her self ,her appearance EVEN AFTER HAVING KIDS... MY cousin told me her husband used to say "honey you are so weak eat more " and she started eating a lot and she got fat...and one day she and her husband were out shopping and her husband saw a lamb passing by and he suddenly said"oh,look my wife is over there, crossing the road,ha ha ha" I dont think thats funny...

So no matter how much your husband say "i love you even if your hair are all messed up honey" or "even if you smell like garlic but i love you honey" Ladies always take sometime for yourself ...always wear perfume,wear nice dresses to impress your man,don't think you are a mother of four or five kids or you are above 50 years old ,age or being a mom of a lot of kids things like these don't matter..so always keep yourself maintained

How to make your marriage work:Step 2

It is true ladies if you want your husband to say SORRY to you then during the whole fight stay calm and quiet and even after the fight don't say anything just make a sad face and you will see he will be the one saying sorry even if its your ,because he will think in his heart that i said so many bad things to her and she remained quiet ,didn't said a word and that is when your man will realize he did a mistake by scolding you and shouting at you......

some time all we woman have to do is to have a big heart and to forgive..

By looking at the above picture she thought soo true ...and so i think....

how to make your marriage work.Step:1

will these fights ever end...

By the way i want to end these fights but i dont want to end my marriage never ever...

so true..

this is so sad...i feel like crying

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is this true???

does love fade away after marriage...?

do you think these small every day issues lead to divorce...

today this happened...so am i thinking negative...

is the aunt as important as a mother for the kid

Why so much politics even in homes .....aaaah,is it happening with me only ....

Who's fault is it anyways....